Frequently Asked Questions
What types of disputes do you mediate?
I primarily focus on family mediation, including divorce, parenting plans, and parenting plan modifications. I also offer mediation for certain civil and community disputes, depending on the situation.
What if the other party doesn’t want to mediate?
Mediation is voluntary. If the other person is unsure, I’m happy to answer questions and explain how the process works. Sometimes understanding what to expect helps people feel more comfortable participating.
How long does mediation take?
Every family’s situation is different. Many cases can be addressed in one 3-hour session, while more complex matters may take additional time. The Individual Private Session (IPS) often helps make mediation time more focused and efficient.
What happens if we can’t agree on everything?
While our goal is a resolution, not all cases settle during one session. In some cases, a follow-up mediation can be scheduled after both sides have had time to reflect on what was discussed. Even if a complete agreement isn’t reached, the process often brings clarity, highlights key issues, and helps move things closer to resolution. If an agreement still isn’t possible, going to court remains an option, but mediation often helps people feel more prepared and focused if that step becomes necessary.
Is mediation legally binding?
If both parties reach an agreement, it can be documented and signed as a legally binding contract. We do not provide legal advice but can help you clarify next steps.
What if emotions run high?
That is very common. Sometimes mediation happens together in one room, and other times I use separate rooms and move back and forth between parties. My role is to create a structure that supports productive conversations.
Do you offer mediation in my state?
Yes, I offer virtual mediation anywhere in the United States, but I mainly work with families in Nebraska, Iowa, South Dakota, and Colorado.
What is an Individual Private Session (IPS)?
Before mediation begins, each person meets privately with me one-on-one. This helps us clarify concerns, identify common ground, and decide the best way to structure mediation.