Frequently Asked Questions
What types of disputes do you mediate?
What if the other party doesn’t want to mediate?
In some family-law cases, mediation may be required by the court or as part of the legal process. In other situations, parents choose mediation on their own before conflict escalates or additional court involvement becomes necessary.
If the other person is unsure about participating, we’re happy to explain how mediation works and answer questions about the process. Sometimes understanding what to expect can make the idea of mediation feel more comfortable.
Requirements vary by case and jurisdiction, so if you have questions about whether mediation is required in your situation, you may want to consult with an attorney or check with your local court.
How long does mediation take?
Every family’s situation is different. Many matters can be addressed in one mediation session, while more complex cases may require additional time or follow-up sessions. Beginning with an Individual Private Session (IPS) helps us understand the issues ahead of time so that mediation can be more focused and our time together can be used intentionally.
What happens if we can’t agree on everything?
You do not have to resolve every issue for mediation to be worthwhile. Sometimes parents reach agreement on only part of what they came to discuss. In other cases, a follow-up mediation can be scheduled after everyone has had time to consider the options. Even when a complete agreement is not reached, mediation can help clarify where you agree, identify what still needs to be resolved, and help you better understand your options moving forward.
Is mediation legally binding?
If you reach an agreement during mediation, we document the terms you agreed upon. For parenting plans, an agreement generally must be accepted by the court before it becomes an enforceable court order. We do not provide legal advice or determine the legal effect of an agreement. If you have questions about your legal rights, filing requirements, or how an agreement may affect you, we encourage you to consult with an attorney.
What if emotions run high?
That is very common, and it is one reason we take time to prepare before mediation begins. Sometimes mediation takes place together in the same room. Other times, we use shuttle mediation, where each person remains in a separate room and we go back and forth between you. The Individual Private Session (IPS) helps us understand your concerns and determine what structure may best support a productive conversation.
Do you offer mediation in my state?
We provide virtual mediation and work primarily with families in Iowa, Nebraska, South Dakota, and Colorado. We may also be able to provide mediation services in other states, depending on the type of case and circumstances. Contact us if you’re outside these states, and we can talk about whether we may be able to help.
What is an Individual Private Session (IPS)?
Before mediation begins, each person meets privately with us one-on-one.
This gives you an opportunity to share your perspective, discuss concerns, clarify what matters most to you, and prepare for mediation. It also helps us identify areas of common ground and determine the best structure for the conversation ahead.
Learn more about Individual Private Sessions (IPS) →
Ready to explore mediation?
Complete our intake form to tell us a little about your situation. We’ll contact you to set up a free 15-minute phone consultation and answer your questions.